I was always so quick to deny help at the grocery store.
I don't need help, I thought.
I am capable of taking my own groceries out to my car.
But my entire outlook changed yesterday,
as something made me accept the help
of a nice older gentleman.
"Which way to your car," he asked.
Surprised at my own compliance, I replied
"This way."
I started walking out to the car briskly as I often do,
and turned around to realize he hadn't even left the store yet.
I went back inside to find him.
"I'm sorry, ma'am, but my legs aren't working well today.
I could tell you my sob story, but it's not necessary.
You'll have to forgive me for being slow."
"Are you sure you want to come outside all this way?" I asked.
"Oh, yes," he said.
"The day is beautiful and I am lucky I can still walk.
So if you can be patient with me, I would love to help you."
Sure, I thought.
Sure I will walk with you,
at your own pace.
In fact, take me with you at this pace.
Lead me into your slow stance with time.
Time really did stand still.
I thanked him for letting me walk with him
and for teaching me more than he could know.
It was an exchange I will never forget.
Slow down and breathe more.
It reminded me of something Abraham Lincoln once said,
"I'm a slow walker, but I never walk back."
It's Monday, walk slowly and pay attention to this day
instead of swiftly jumping to Friday.
~ L ~